In divorce matters, as in all matters,
confidentiality and discretion are of the utmost importance, together
with sensitivity when dealing with clients. We recognise how
difficult the breakdown of a relationship can be and we strive to do all
we can to assist our clients in bringing about a speedy and effective
resolution to the issues which may arise.
A divorce can be based on one or more of the following:
The adultery of your husband/wife.
The unreasonable behaviour of your husband/wife towards you.
Desertion by your husband/wife.
The separation of you and your
husband/wife for at least two years where your husband/wife consents to
the divorce on that basis.
The separation of you and your husband/wife for at least five years (the consent of your husband/wife is not required).
You cannot start divorce proceedings unless you have been married for more than one year.
If you were married abroad, you may
still approach a divorce solicitor in England or Wales for assistance
with regard to divorce proceedings.
Key stages in the divorce process
The Petition is sent to the Court by the person starting the divorce proceedings (called the Petitioner).
The Petition is sent (served) by the
Court on your husband/wife (called the Respondent) and your husband/wife
completes an Acknowledgement of Service.
If your husband/wife objects to
(contests) the Petition there may be a Hearing but generally matters are
agreed between the husband and wife and attendance at Court is not
necessary.
The Court considers the Petition and the arrangements for any children.
Pronouncement of Decree Nisi.
Pronouncement of Decree Absolute (at least six weeks and one day after Decree Nisi)
Mediation
Mediation
is a process whereby you and your husband/wife have the opportunity to
discuss issues (usually relating to the financial side of the marriage
but also other issues which there may be, for example, with regard to children) at a meeting or meetings with a mediator there to assist you
in reaching agreement. It will not be suitable in every case but where
it is suitable it can produce more timely and cost effective solutions.
Our divorce solicitor Maggie Kerrigan will be pleased to discuss matters with you.
Separation Agreements
A
Separation Agreement is useful if a couple wish to separate but do not
wish to instigate divorce proceedings. Separation Agreements
can deal with issues such as where a child or children of the family
will live custody, child contact and child maintenance, property issues
and such like.
Links
Gingerbread
The largest organisation for lone parents
OneUp Magazine
The online magazine for single parents and step parents
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